How to Break Your Man Down Day by Day
by Ann Thrope
“He said we were going window shopping but he took me to Lowes!”
You found your man and coerced him into engagement. He let you plan the wedding however you wanted, and took you on your dream honeymoon, but what’s next? If you think you’re out of the water now, you’re in for a surprise when your man starts giving you lip every time you tell him to do things. It can be difficult to make a man care about your needs as well as his own, and for some the prospect may not actually be a possibility. Nonetheless, you can try, and so here are a few effective ways to help your husband or significant other see things from your perspective.
Make him dependent on you.
You need to convince your man that you have something he doesn’t. There are a number of ways to do this, including making more money than him, being a good cook, bearing children, and withholding sex. You need to have a few good lines like, “I take care of these kids all day and you can’t even…” or “I have a headache because you never took the trash out.” and “If you don’t I’m leaving you.”
Don’t give an inch.
Breaking your man down can take months or even years, but it will only take longer if you make it into a game of give and take. You need to take, take, take, or else you’ll never make any progress. Make him do things that you wouldn’t do yourself, like driving several hours to see you, buying you expensive dinners, and Valentine’s Day Wednesdays.
Sex
Using sex to your advantage is surely something you’ve learned already, but it can’t hurt to practice fundamentals. First off, you have to make him work for it. Make sure he realizes that if he doesn’t play by your rules, there isn’t going to be any game at all. Using sex starts outside the bedroom. You need to keep him thinking about having sex with you as much as possible, but keep the actual time spent having sex to a minimum. Be receptive, but not easy, or else you risk boring him. Try on new outfits for him, act kinky but don’t be kinky, and always be more generous with sex on vacations, or else he may become too comfortable staying at home.
Complain
When your man does something for you, don’t let him off easy if he doesn’t do it exactly as you want it. You need to make sure that he understands that its not the thing being done that is important, but how you want it to be done. If he does, then you are close to being on your way to having the man you deserve. Only give him what he wants when he has finished doing everything you want, i.e. never.
and you wonder why some men dislike women.
oh well, enjoy being a useless sack of shit, while men do everything worthwhile in the world.
cant wait till you die :3
hahahaha lol
oh you feminists. the funny thing is that you’re dependent on us. you’ll wait and wait to have kids because you’ve just been sleeping around, and then when you’re 35 and have that hormonal craze to birth a child, you’ll be so old and used up, nobody’s going to want to look at you naked, let alone touch you. Have fun contributing nothing to society, other than making other nice women into crazed feminists control freaks.
Ah men.
Ah Ann Thrope. You are my heroine.
(Not to be confused with heroin. I don’t have any of that, literal or otherwise, nor do I want any)
And here it is: Why?
Isn’t it obvious?
How delightfully psychotic, controlling, manipulative and outright sociopathic. You can rename this article “How to be a Bitch” because that’s about all it is. You could also rename it “My Man (woman)”. Either way whatever man is falling for this isn’t a real man so you may just want to start kissing girls.
No men are falling for this? Ha. You must be joking. What is a real man? I’ll tell you, “Jeff,” if that is your real name, that men everywhere have already been broken down. Probably even you, and you never even realized it.
Yea, but that still doesn’t change the fact that your a manipulative bitch.
And you’re just a bitch.
Heh, well seems fairly obvious now what ‘The Ladies Monthly’ refers to. Apparently article and website written in whole by someone in a constant state of raging PMS!
Good luck w that!
How dare you speak of our brand like that. Our writers are level-headed, concerned, and unemotional in their commitment to women’s media.
Awww, I feel so sorry for you having so many bad relationships that now you have to spread your negativity all over the internet. Buy a brownie, make yourself feel better. Hate and rage feeds on dumb people who cannot think for themselves. It is easier to control someone else than it is to have control of and be effective in your own life – so – you put out articles like this. Sad.
Want a cookie for your comment, brownie boy? You’re right, it is much easier to control someone else than to piss around doing things yourself, and that is why I’ve wrote this helpful guide for women.
Hahaha ok after doing some research on how tyo know you are in an abussive relatiosnhip:
From: http://www.stanford.edu/group/svab/relationships.shtml
“What is Relationship Abuse?
Relationship Abuse is a pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors used to maintain power and control over a former or current intimate partner. An abusive relationship means more than being hit by the person who claims to love or care about you. Abuse can be emotional, psychological, financial, sexual or physical and can include threats, isolation, and intimidation. Abuse tends to escalate over time. When someone uses abuse and violence against a partner, it is always part of a larger pattern to try to control her/him. ”
Not enough? ok how about a bit from: http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive_signs.htm
-Is jealous or possessive toward you.
-Tries to control you by being very bossy or demanding.
-Pressures you sexually, demands sexual activities you are not comfortable with.
-Claims you are responsible for his or her emotional state. (This is a core diagnostic criteria for Codependency.)
So all in all this article seems to support abuse. Not only support it but it seems that it uses abuse to get what you want. Good job ladies monthly in supporting abuse in relationships!!!!
Thanks for the praise Jeff! We’re turning things around for women, who are almost always the victims of abuse in a relationship. Its about time that the men get theirs.
I was under the impression that relationship were based on trust and love.
Its ok, we all have to learn sometime.
Hate to say it, but if you’re a woman who listens to this sort of advice, or it makes sense to you, you’re kind of an asshole.
And if you are a man who is put-off by this advice, you are a total dick.
And Ann kudos to you for actually taking the time to address comments personally. Many authors wouldn’t put forth that kind of effort and it’s pretty refreshing to see someone stand by what they wrote.
It is the least I can do. Some writers don’t have the balls to face readers, or somehow think they are above criticism. I view the response to my articles as direct communication from God, and respond in kind.
Some of the guys you complain so much about start out as decent guys. But after years of being manipulated and abused by women following advice such as this page provides become jaded and distant. Yes, some guys are jerks. But a lot of them are just responding to the sick sadistic and dehumanizing control you promote. This is one the most psychologically abusive and destructive things I’ve ever read. I hope your readers are smart enough to realize the damage that you are doing to them and to any possibility they may ever have of having a healthy relationship.
Jaded and distant is fine as long as they keep their clothes off the floor and take the trash out when it smells. What you don’t seem to get is how useful it is to have a broken man. In fact, the phrase “break your man” is the third most searched term for new visitors to this site, (presumably women or gay men, or straight men trying to know what they are up against), and that is a fact.
“Only give him what he wants when he has finished doing everything you want, i.e. never.”
I’m so glad that I never met you in person. You’re setting womens’ rights back 50+ years with this crap.
I’m all for equality with sex, race, creed, etc… How would you like to be treated this way? Maybe you were by some douchebag that you dated years ago who played you and now this is all about revenge. Remember that revenge is the pleasure of a small and weak minded person.
My wife would never attempt at “breaking me down” as I would never do to her. We have a loving supportive relationship where we are both equal. Never in her mind would she think of something like this to gain leverage/control/power.
Oh, I also sent this “article” to her and I hope she responds to you as well.
Setting women back? Ha. I’m pushing them forward. These are the tips any seasoned bitch already knows in order to get her way. I’m empowering women with this knowledge, putting my nose to the grindstone to give the advice women everywhere need, but no one wants them to have.
Love simply cannot spring up without that self-surrender
to each other. If either withholds the self,
love cannot exist….Dr. E. Stanley Jones.
See that? Self-surrender, not force.
I love your statement about “any seasoned bitch already knows”.. You proved my point. This is not about love or respect or equality, it’s truly about manipulation.
“give the advice women everywhere need, but no one wants them to have.”
Really? This advice you speak of will help women how? By attempting to apply this method to a good man who loves her, he begins to feel resentment because nothing he does is any good, no intimate moments that can be shared, threats to leave and that makes things better for you how?
The guy will leave, being better off without you and he WILL tell others about what he has experienced when he was with you. So…. How does this benefit you?
Short term gain, long term loss….
Yes, women have been pushed around, yes they have been manipulated and played for fools. However to advocate this kind of mentality does not help your cause, you’re just adding more fuel to the fire.
Two wrongs don’t make a right.
You seem to have a very narrow-minded definition of love. Do you own a dog that you train? Do you love your dog as much, if not more, than members of your family?
“Two wrongs don’t make a right.”
No, but one wrong can make another wrong right. Right? Isn’t that what our entire justice system is about? Is it right to put hold people against their will, or kill them? No. Its wrong, but they did wrong too so that’s why it works. Simple logic.
I have two dogs, and NO I do not love them more than any member of my family. I have a wife that I love, and two beautiful step-daughters that I love just as much.
Have I trained my dogs to not pee on the floor? Well, honestly I tried and they still have accidents….
Have I tried to train them to love me a certain way? Hell no! They love me in their way, and I love them back.
Same with my wife and step-daughters. I don’t train them to love me, they either do, or they don’t. They don’t train me either. We support each other in the ways that we can, we help nurture each other and through 4 years of marriage, we all have become better people NOT THROUGH MANIPULATION, but through shared experiences, open communication and most importantly, love and respect.
“No, but one wrong can make another wrong right. Right?”
Wrong. Your analogy is interesting but flawed. Our justice system is (at its core) punishing someone for the wrong that they have done, helping to get that person to understand what they did was wrong, to correct the mistakes that brought them to that point, and to be rehabilitated so that they can be productive members of society again.
Not just “holding people against their will”. that is a truly simplified statement.
Oh, and your comment about my “narrow-minded” definition of love? How can I put into words the full definition? That is just one part of it. Love is so difficult to define in a single sentence, quote, or letter.
What I feel for my wife and girls can never be defined in words.
I feel sorry for you because I don’t think you’ll ever experience what I and many others feel with our spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends.
But hey, no hard feelings and good luck with your methods…. Me, I’m going home to spend time with my family who loves me.
(And in spite of me not taking out the trash, I’ll still be intimate with my wife tonight)
That’s because she loves me!
“Wrong. Your analogy is interesting but flawed. Our justice system is (at its core) punishing someone for the wrong that they have done, helping to get that person to understand what they did was wrong, to correct the mistakes that brought them to that point, and to be rehabilitated so that they can be productive members of society again.”
Right. Punishing. Men should be punished for allowing the abuse of women among their gender. Just like a criminal should be punished for abusing their victim. Punishment is just a wrong done to a wrong doer, to show them that what they did was wrong. Right? The only difference between murder and execution is the moral and legal standing of the victim.
“And in spite of me not taking out the trash, I’ll still be intimate with my wife tonight)
That’s because she loves me!”
Lazy bastard, she’s probably just shame-fucking you… but if she wants some “brownie” points, have her check out our article Why You Should Open Up About Anal.
Marriage is about compensating. Give some here, and get some there. Its a CO-existence where two people learn to live with each other; they mesh into one entity. What you are describing (@ Anne Thorpe) is more like a parasitic relationship where your target audience consumes and supresses the other half. I feel sorry for you and your marriage (if you have one). It must be sad and unemotional.
Simple. In the entity of my marriage, I am the head.
There’s nothing sad about that, hippie.
This is love?
What is love?
This must be where my ex-wife got her information. I’m having loads of fun with my 25 year old, non-needy/crazy girlfriend now. It might work for a while, but we all wise-up eventually.
She stops putting out? Find sex elsewhere. Le Problem?
She doesn’t stop, she just doesn’t go doing it for no reason. The key is to be subtle about it being a reward, however, because if he catches on you may need to start “randomly” fucking him to make him think that you’re no longer gaming his sex drive.
Luckly for you Ann, with a set of instructions like this, it should guarantee you’ll be alone…. forever.
Your article is now being featured in MensRights. Thanks for the great ammo.
Another angry man.
It’s funny reading this bullshit. You’re either a troll or a beta woman. Enjoy contributing nothing to society but misinformation and pure crazy. You’re not any different than a religious freak trying to convert people who can’t even read. Have fun brainwashing all the weaklings.
I am none of the things you say I am. You’re trying to brainwash my readers, jilting them out of the valuable information I provide. Shame on you.
Ann, what you are talking about is manipulation. I could point out your word choices that indicate this clearly, but you know it in your heart. The truth is that while you may be giving women tactics to have some “power” over their men, you are by no means making women or their men any happier. What kind of woman can even respect a man who allows himself to be treated like this?
I agree that men should be attentive to a woman’s needs and that she should set boundaries around having sex, but they should be on both people’s terms. All that made a lot of sense to me. But take, take, take? How horrible? A successful union needs to be about giving.
This kind of attitude is exactly why I am 36 and still single. I am certainly a catch and I have broken several hearts along the way because I didn’t want to be manipulated or broken down or take it upon myself to raise a girl into a woman. I’m seeing a woman now who appears to have her heart in the right place, but as soon as I see this kind of garbage, its over. I’d rather be single than miserable.
I hope you find happiness someday, Ann, because this is NOT the path to it. I truly feel sorry for you.
I know it in my heart? Don’t you know that thinking occurs in the brain? Stupid idiot. I’m not even reading the rest of that.
This Should be called “How to get cheated on, strangled, and dumped.” Not in that order mind you. We all know what happens to Seasoned Bitches: They get old. That you didn’t factor in.
And once you’re both old the techniques have well set-in and she should have no problem making sure that she can enjoy herself at home with her retired husband, who will have developed an almost native interest in cooking, cleaning, running errands, and doing chores around the house.
Wow you are the reason I’m gay bitch.
Wow I didn’t know of this method for choosing to be gay. Hating women! This will be a wonderful addition to our article on Getting the Gay Son You Always Wanted.
Very clever, I do love how men are compared to dogs. Yes we do love dogs, but if my dog gets sick I don’t feel heartbroken if it is put down. That sounds like a great way to look at your significant other.
Are you heartless? Most people feel pretty heartbroken when they lose their dogs. At the same time though… you can always get a new dog.
This is one of the most horrible things I have ever read, as a woman I am deeply mortified and offended that other women might attempt to pass this off as a way to treat anyone, be they male or female. Relationships of any variety should not be based off a who can break who first dynamic. Manipulation is an underhanded tactic, which real, confident, self assured, and self loving women have no use for. This article makes me sad because somewhere out there is a young lady reading this and buying into the tripe for sale inside. You should be ashamed of yourself for trying to perpetuate such a ridiculous stereotype.
You should be ashamed of yourself for holding women back.
Pretty good troll Misanthrope. But you shoulda let the article stand. Responding to all the commentators makes it less funny and more clingy/territorial.
Funny? What the fuck are you getting at? I’m responding to these miscreants because I cannot allow their deformed ideas to remain unrefuted. There’s nothing clingy or territorial about it, that is your perception, not mine. My duty is only to the truth.
I don’t date women anymore for these reasons.
This article prescribes to an animalistic approach. Power and Control of others is derived from the human instinct to feel safe and secure, but it is also (in a much darker way) a source of pleasure. Alpha/Beta relationships are ultimately unhealthy unless both parties are in a prior agreement. This being said, relationships “should” take a democratic approach, where both parties share responsibilities equally.
Critical thinking should be the driving force not instinctual desires.
Yeah, ok. Keep trying to dominate this helpful advice with your nerdy nonsense. I’m going to use my critical thinking to figure out how to have my husband offer to remodel the kitchen.
See you are coming in at the ass end of things, I was able to break my woman down before she had the chance to do it to me, after pumping 3 kids into her and destroying that 20 year old body of hers I have made sure only some overweight loser would ever consider talking to her. I have made her understand she only has two functions in life, taking care of my kids and making sure the other half of the day is spent in the kitchen. Take that check to the bank and cash it, it’s signed by a real man!
I totally agree with Miss Ann Thrope! I totally love the way my wife never has sex with me! She used to look OK but now she is ugly and fat and it makes me sick in my mouth if she so much as flirts with me.
That’s why I started balling the woman next door.
..And the truth is, if you treat your husband like this you are a selfish jerk and probably should not have gotten married in the first place. The advice you dole out here is petty and crass, at best.
More like useful and entertaining. That’s how we like it here. And polite. Don’t forget polite.
People, the author isn’t a Feminist. Feminism is a philosophy of equality between male and female. She is quite simply a sexist.
Yes, it goes both ways. Sorry, Ann.
Calling me a sexist? Hah. More like a realist. I hate to say it, but you’re too concerned about how to judge me to look into the mirror.
this is as disgusting as that article about how to get a away with rape!
You must be using an odd definition of ‘disgusting.’
Ann, ive never in my life been able to sense the weight of an author through their writing. You must be as fat as a fucking whale
Wow, your psychokinetic powers must have really failed you this time, nutjob. You must not have seen my article Lose 25 Pounds in One Day
“Using sex to your advantage is surely something you’ve learned already, but it can’t hurt to practice fundamentals. First off, you have to make him work for it. Make sure he realizes that if he doesn’t play by your rules, there isn’t going to be any game at all.”
Can’t wait to see you cry to your girlfriends because your man cheated on you.
Ha. I have him wrapped around my finger. You don’t even know the half of it.
Giving advice on how to be an abusive and manipulative woman? Nothing but character and class here.
Finally someone who gets it.
Here let me have a go: This is exactly how people get ripped apart. Using anything as a weapon is not a relationship/love it is war. Since most feminists are liberal and most liberals are anti war than you should hypothetically against it! Right? If I wrote an article about men using tactics to abuse women your head would explode. Btw my girlfriend sitting next to me is pissed, she is a rape/emotional abuse victim.
The article for husbands who want to show their love for their wives through brief, strong, physical contact is coming soon. Look out for For Your Husband: Show Her How You Feel
As a happy, goal-oriented, loving and COMMITTED man in a wonderful relationship, I am sorry to see you are guiding your readers down a path of self destruction and unfulfilling relationships. Any beautiful, caring, compassionate, loyal, independent woman deserves a man that does not need breaking. True happiness with oneself can be an absolutely beautiful thing when it’s expressed within the context of a fulfilling, committed relationship. I hope the more intelligent of your readers are keen enough to recognize the advice in this article as toxic- assured to leave anybody with a fragile excuse for a relationship, characterized by jealousy, resentment, guilt, and eventual demise.
Surely anyone who believes responses or criticisms are communication from God is benevolent enough to find value in the tenet “Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.” Abuse in any form is despicable and intolerable. While I may not be able to truly empathize with an abused woman, I fail to see the rationale in advising women everywhere to abuse men in their future relationships as a means of rectifying the unfortunate experiences of a subset of women around the world. To me, this is no different than advising all Christians to murder Muslims, because of the actions of a handful of extremists. I should hope you wouldn’t advise such a thing, but this article speaks volumes of your character, and upon reading it, I am not so sure.
Good luck in life Ann. May you find a man good enough to know how to properly treat a woman, and see what the word “happiness” really means.
Please convince yourself of the quality of your relationship elsewhere. If you want some real direction, read some more of our articles.
“Abuse in any form is despicable and intolerable. ”
You are despicable and intolerable.
I don’t actually believe that the replies are communication from God, I just say that because it makes things sound interesting. I don’t believe in God, unless by God you just mean to put a name on to “everything.” In which case, I could see, literally, where you are coming from. In that sense, both our replies are part of God, the only difference being that the energy my part is putting into this effort is not misguided.
Oh come on guys, this is obvious trolling. If she was serious there is no need to be angry about it. If anything you can feel sorry for Ann. If she was serious she obviously had too many traumatic experiences with men. I don’t know about you guys but “breaking your man” seems like advice only a retard would follow, after all, it is the easiest way to get cheated on and dumped.
I am not trying to incite anyone, they are just a bunch of pussies who probably are already totally broken, and so have a lot to whine about when they see the reminder placed for them here. Many retarded women surely are already well aware of this advice and don’t need to follow me, certainly. This article is for women who just haven’t been made aware of it, no matter their IQ.
It’s interesting listening to feminists bitch about equality then you have ol’ Ann Thrope here declaring that that’s not enough and women must now ‘turn it around’. So much for equality
Watching these articles pop up every now and then is good for a quick laugh, not much else.
By the way, what ever happened to simply loving and caring about your partner? A relationship isn’t supposed to be a fight for power. I suppose you’ll never really understand that though which is a damn shame.
Its called justice. Learn about it.
I had sex with Ann. She likes to be tied up. Lol
This is a lie. You have never had sex with me.
Abuse is a serious problem, no matter which gender is experiencing it.
If you are being abused, or think you may be abusing someone you love please get help by calling The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or visit them at http://www.thehotline.org/
Check out their “Is this abuse?” section for more information on what constitutes an abusive relationship.
If you’re a man who can’t take a little encouragement, don’t waste their time.
fuck you ann thrope, you are an asshole
how to control a woman who is trying to control you (a man’s perspective)
– If a woman tries to make you dependent on her, be it through cooking, sex or baby making kick her ass to the curb and tell her she can stay at her sisters
– if a woman withholds sex as a form of punishment fuck her sister, preferably tape it
– if she tries to make you buy expensive things for her, do not
– if she nags you constantly hit her until she stops
Sounds like someone isn’t going to be getting any pussy for a long, long time.
“It’s called justice”
Youre a fucking moron. Your definition of Justice is abusing your significant other because other men, not your own, have put other women through abuse. Thats like shooting a random guy on the street because you heard about a murder.
“I’m going to use my critical thinking to figure out how to have my husband offer to remodel the kitchen”
God forbid that he’d actually want to do it to make you happy without you manipulating him. No wonder you have to manipulate him. My fiancée does what I want without me having to be a bitch, but thats probably because he likes me unlike your relationship apparently.
You sound like a manipulative, gold-digging, sad, loveless bitch.
“You sound like a manipulative, gold-digging, sad, loveless bitch.”
Funny, that was exactly what I was going to say to you after reading the rest of your bullshit. I wouldn’t put you anywhere near my league though, you’re going to need a few more bitch lessons before you try to mess with me, hussy.
wow I just looked through two of your other articles, you are just a fucking sexist, its a wonder that you even got a guy to be near you.
You’re just jealous that you haven’t got a guy near you.
Ann admit it, after every single comment on here states that your advice is horrible and wrong, I think its time to cease backing your claims. After reading a massive amounts of comments it’s quite sad to see you respond in such a childish manner to such educated responses, you have no statistics or citations to prove that this methodology works in any way. Without actual proof that manipulating another human to do as you wish is a humane thing to do the advice is completely useless, there is no weight to it in the slightest.
I’m not going to try and help you find reason in this, infact I can already predict a response if any as some poor attempt to shoulder off this comment because you cannot find any article that could produce even a minute amount of proof that your “information to empower women” is actually empowering them.
I don’t know how you treat other people in real life but you must be an awful person to know. I’m guessing thats why you write articles for a second rate website with third rate writers. Before you bother typing anything to defend this site consider that your article has gave me that exact impression.
I really hope that one day you realise before you die that this worlds people male and female alike aren’t all like what you think they are, though there are them people that sour the entirety of them all it is the good deeds that really show through and empower people and not this silly article.
Just because a bunch of idiots disagree with me does not mean that I am wrong, it just means that there is unfortunately a very high level of stupidity in the world. Yourself included.
I know! Men are so much better at blowjobs.
Why are all the respondents to this article male?
They’re probably just closeted gay men, which would explain why they think they hate women so much and yet come here to read our magazine.
Lol this is hilarious thanks for the entertainment. I don’t think you actually believe that your better then a man. If you did you wouldn’t be trying so hard to emulate a level of douche bag normally only found among the lowest forms of men. Kinda suggests that you yourself think of women to be lower as you aspire to be as such. Guess one can’t expect you to make leaps and bounds any further then the douche bags you emulate. If you really want to figure out men you should clone yourself then marry yourself after taking some testosterone and pumping iron until you have a mustache and your ovaries drop and can pass as testicles so then you can slam a 26 of JD and listen to yourself for 20-25 minutes, long enough to feel our pain. Then we will see if you can keep yourself from slapping the shit out of yourself. I bet you wouldn’t, because you probably beat your boyfriends. Stupid bitches like you tend to make men shoot themselves. You think men are as cold and inanimate as you, you’ll find out how wrong/right you can be when you use this list on some crazy fuck who knocks your ass out like that bitch from jersey shore/the hills that you probably watch. Nothing anyone says here will make you change your way of thinking, it will take a man just as ruthless as you. One who will have you “broke” like all men did to all women for thousands of years. The only reason you get to play your games is because men let you start them in the first place. So to you and all the other feminists out there, WE LET YOU BECOME PEOPLE! EVERYTHING YOU HAVE NOW YOU DIDN’T HAVE BEFORE AND IT’S BECAUSE OF US!!! WE GAVE YOU YOUR RIGHTS!!!!! WE WILL FOREVER HOLD THAT OVER THE HEADS OF FEMINISTS! THEY WOULD NOT EXIST IF WE DID NOT ALLOW IT! So be the stuck up gold digging feminist bitch you want to be, just remember its not because you achieved or conquered the right yourself but something we gave you.
Cheers! P.S. highly suggest the whole cloning yourself thing. I hear it increases your chances of getting cancer. Also really cool how you feed your trolls haha.
jon says:
January 12th, 2011 at 11:55 AM
“undeniable proof that women are bitches and whores”
It is women such as Ann Thrope that create this reality in the minds of all men.
Your bigoted farce is a product of your own stupid imagination, not of the reality of the situation.
undeniable proof that women are bitches and whores
The post title would sound better like ” Do this an learn how to live with 20 cats for the rest of your life”…I am a woman and I think this is bullshit. I am happily married and never did something like this…and many women are asking themselves why they are alone??…you must be really stupid to believe this shit…!!! I feel bad for men living with this kind of nightmare, I would write an article based on this helping men how to identify this signals before start any kind of relationship with this kind of batshit crazy woman.
With a face like that I can understand if you’re happy taking what you can get.
This article should be retitled to “How to Guarantee Your Husband Will Cheat on You, With Someone Half Your Age”
No, but with these tips cheating on your husband should be easy. You won’t even have to keep it a secret.
Ann Thrope? As in misanthrope? (definition: a person who hates or distrusts humankind) Nice pen name you picked out!
Ann Thrope says:
“How dare you speak of our brand like that. Our writers are level-headed, concerned, and unemotional in their commitment to women’s media.”
She then goes on to insult anyone that disagrees with her, cussing at them and calling them names. Hardly the definition of level-headed & unemotional.
Her article advises women to say “If you don’t I’m leaving you.” This is mental abuse. If her husband were to leave her, this article and her comments alone could easily be used against her in court to show her as an abusive spouse. I know you’re going to insult me for this Ann, but take a printout to a divorce lawyer to read and get their opinion. (don’t forget to print the comments section!)
“Men should be punished for allowing the abuse of women among their gender.” This is a very sexist statement, which of course Ann denies being sexist. This statement treats ALL men as deserving punishment. The definition of sexism is: prejudice or discrimination based on sex.
Could I get a level-headed, unemotional response from Ann? Here are some quotes from her previous responses:
Ann Thrope says:
“And you’re just a bitch.”
“And if you are a man who is put-off by this advice, you are a total dick.”
“These are the tips any seasoned bitch already knows in order to get her way.”
“Lazy bastard, she’s probably just shame-fucking you… ”
“Stupid idiot. I’m not even reading the rest of that.”
“I’m going to use my critical thinking to figure out how to have my husband offer to remodel the kitchen.”
“And polite. Don’t forget polite.” (WHAT??)
“You are despicable and intolerable.”
“you’re going to need a few more bitch lessons before you try to mess with me, hussy.”
I don’t feel like I need to comment any further. Ann’s comments speak for themselves as to her own state of mind.
Holy shit, it looks like someone had a little time on their hands. Thanks for the summary fuckwit! As I have already stated, this is my real name. You are just a schizophrenic asshole who is trying to explain away my advice that must have shattered your reality.
Ann Thrope says:
January 12th, 2011 at 5:35 PM
“Holy shit, it looks like someone had a little time on their hands. Thanks for the summary fuckwit! As I have already stated, this is my real name. You are just a schizophrenic asshole who is trying to explain away my advice that must have shattered your reality.”
Such a civilised display of debating skills. No wonder men do not take women seriously. More importantly, it is easy to be abusive over the safety of the internet. If Ann Thrope is like most women she would severly lack the courage to be as abusive to her correspondants in person.
Laughable. “No wonder men do not take women seriously.” You think that all women debate like me, and so you are a sexist. “If Ann Thrope is like most women she would severly lack the courage to be as abusive to her correspondants in person.”
Again, you are a sexist. You are probably totally whipped or single, and having attachment issues with women signaling impending homosexuality.
You’ve got to be kidding me! No real man could even take this seriously because they——
“What?”
“Ummm, yes dear.”
*Gotta go*
I am really glad I read this article. Mainly as it states in black and white what I have been saying for years – that women hate men and will whatever they can to abuse us. I am so happy to be single. Whilst I have longed to meet a loving woman who wants to forge a life partnership, this article reminds me they no longer exist.
More and more women fooled by feminists doctrine should get used to spending their lives alone as men wake up to them in ever increasing numbers. The sheer nastiness of the author, Ann Thorpe as shown in her replies to correspondence to the article should be enough to put most men off marriage. Why would any man want to put up with a personality like that.
Sadly, the more feminist crap I read, the more I realise that modern women are a liability. More sadly, every new feminist article I read puts me one step further away from wanting to have anything to do with women ever.
Well, Robert, I’m sorry you have convinced yourself into becoming an unabashed sexist. If you are still tired of women though, try reading our article Why You Should Open Up About Anal.
Ann Thrope, ha ha.. This article reads like ‘a guide for dried up cunts on how to make sure you never get laid’. Such a pathetic excuse for a woman.
I think you might be projecting. I have no problem at all getting laid. In fact, I get it when I want it, and only when I want it, whenever I want it, from whoever I want. And my husband has become such a cow he doesn’t even mind. In fact, he likes to watch.
Wow, this bitch really needs a couple black eyes. Shit, maybe a broken rib or two would help her cuntiness
lol i bet this Ann thrope woman got raped by her uncle or sumthing thats y shes so fuked up
lol i love fukin girls and leevin em
i rekon ann is really fat and ugly and alloonnneee lol
i think she needs to write abou her rape experiences by her dad rather than talk all this pro-feminsim bullshit
hhahahah
its not anns fault that she was molested as a child
LADIES AND GENTLEMEN WE HAVE A PERSON WHO WAS ABUSED AS A A CHILD OR DIDNT COME FROM A LOVING FAMILY
HAHAHAA
LOL
U CAN SAY W/E U WANT OVAA THE INTERNET BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY UR FAT UGLY AND ALLOOONNEE WAHEEEEY
i seriously need a woman like you to dominate meee
plleassee marry me ill let you control me all you want
you can even do me witha strap on
What’s the first thing a women does when she gets out of the battered women’s shelter?… the dishes if she knows what;s good for her.
If theres a dude that doesn’t get the fuck out of a relationship when all these red flags appeared then he’s out of his mind! Perhaps Ann has some kind of personality disorder that this website has legitimated as perfectly acceptable behavior. Ann forgets that there’s a market for sex: if one girlfriend doesn’t put out men have the option of dumping said bitch and fucking someone else. If a man has balls, its the first thing he’d do. If not, good luck with paying a mortgage you didn’t want wearing a knitted jumper and being told you’re unloading the dishwasher wrong. If these women want to mother boys, let them.
My face when me and my girl have a perfect two way relationship where neither manipulates the other and we basically lead our own version of a perfect harmonic relationship.
Harmony? I hate to say it baby, but she’s probably fucking the drummer.
I was trying to think of a response that wasn’t “Wow”.
There’s a reason I hate most internet feminists. I’m all for equal rights and similar, but gorrammit WHY DO YOU HAVE TO SAY MEN ARE EVIL.
I can go through the mathematical reasons why you’re wrong, but that might involve grasping some high conceptual stuff. But hey, small sample sizes and misreporting is what the internet is for!
If you’re withholding sex, go ahead. I seriously don’t mind. Withholding being intimate on the other hand…well it’s your own fault when it comes crashing down.
Who ever said men are evil? They are not evil, they are servants. There’s a big difference there. We here at the Ladies’ Monthly have a motto: “Good women tell men what to do. Good men do it.”
women like you make REAL feminists look bad. there is nothing wrong with being a feminist, but being like this is just straight up unnecessary
I won’t tell you how to improve your lot in live if you won’t tell me how to improve mine. This information is here for women who need it.
I’m sorry, you’re correct. At no point did you say men was evil. I apologise for doing an assumption based on taking a small sample size of people and extrapolating it to a larger populace. You know, like a statistician would do?
Wait, sorry. A statistician would never make an assumption based on taking a small sample size of people and extrapolating it to a larger populace.
May I ask why the men are servants?
“A statistician would never make an assumption based on taking a small sample size of people and extrapolating it to a larger populace.”
Sure they would, but it doesn’t mean it would be more than an assumption. And you know what assumptions do, right?
“May I ask why the men are servants?”
For the same reason why you felt the need to ask me if you could ask the question. They are easily dominated.
I think you may be misunderstanding me, or I’m misunderstanding you.
Most of the people who’s writing revolves around making men subservient have had a bad experience with (at most) 2 men. Out of the millions out there, you had a crap time with 2 of them. Now, extrapolating that all men are like that is not only mathematically stupid, it’s also sexist.
And no, a statistician would never take a small sample and extrapolate it to the rest of the populace. It’s easily proved to be incorrect, but we’ll leave group theory to the real mathematicians. If you do that, then you’re riding for a fall – the interesting thing about a lot of homoeopathy cases is that they take a small sample and compare it to placebo and use it as proof. Any scientist in the world will look at it and go “Well, that’s a load of rubbish”.
“For the same reason why you felt the need to ask me if you could ask the question. They are easily dominated”
Fun fact: Politeness != A need to ask. I could have just said “Why are men the servants?”, but it would have been blunt and I like to think I’m a nice person.
I’d also like to reiterate the whole small sample size thing. It’s amazing what you learn when you look at statistics.
I think you are misunderstanding me. Obviously this is so, since you still disagree.
I’m also not sure what your problem is now. You seem to be trying to psychoanalyze me in a vain attempt to distract from the subject at hand, which is breaking men down for easy use. This article is the number one searched article in the history of the site, as many women search the phrase “how to break your man” and we are the #1 result on Google. So if you have a problem with information, I think you have greater problems than being whipped by your significant other, which you will be.
I really hope that these articles are some cruel joke and that is it to you, that you just like to rile people up. If so its determinately working. And unfortunately I don’t see it as funny.
This article in particular is telling people to become abusive and that is a criminal offense.
You yourself are being sexist, although you call the men who are arguing you sexist. Sexism, racism, etc have two extremes of it. A woman should learn how to care for herself, be an individual and how to protect herself from danger, not how to turn around and be just as cruel to others.
One of the comments you made was that it is time for men to have their turn being abused, fuck you. Did you know that many men are abused, just because there aren’t as many reports about it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
I disagree with many of your idealism on this website. These are the ideas of a close minded person. Its people like the people writing these posts that make it so that there will never be equality in people.